Internet use to meet romantic and/or sexual partners: preferences according to gender and whether or not having a steady partner.
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A main motive for consuming cybersex is tomeet people for romantic and/or sexual purposes. It seems that gender could be important as modulator in performance of this type of Online Sexual Activity (OSA); however, the data are scarce and do not always point in the same direction. Likewise, the impact of having a steady relationship on the consumption of this type of OSA has not been extensively studied. Therefore, the aim of this paper is to analyze the influence of gender and having or not having a steady partner in the use and selection of OSAs involving sexual and/or romantic interaction with other online users. For this purpose, 120 people aged 18-48 years (59.17% women, 40.83% men; 56.65% without a steady partner, 43.35% with a steady partner) completed a questionnaire on online sexual behaviors and practices. Flirting and innuendo to other users are the most common interactive OSA among men (55.1%) and women (45.1%). Men tend to prefer those interactive OSA focused on offline sexual contact seeking, while women show preferences for online cybersex. However, gender differences are only statistically significant for online sexual partner seeking (χ2= 3.870; p=.049). Interactive cybersex consumption is very common in people in a stable relationship (89.5%-92.9%), so that no statistically significant differences are seen with respect to singles for any OSA. This paper has allowed us to demonstrate that gender is a clear modulating factor in the use and selection of OSAs to meet people for sexual and/or romantic purposes. Nevertheless, it seems that having o not having a steady partner is not an explanatory factor of this use.
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