Roses and thorns in romantic relationships: love, expectations, and problems

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Published: Sep 27, 2014
DOI: https://doi.org/10.17060/ijodaep.2014.n1.v3.516
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Romantic relationships love conflict

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Ana Isabel Isidro de Pedro
Universidad de Salamanca
Isaac Peñil Fernández
Universidad de Salamanca

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The intimate relationships have a great value in the life of the persons and, for most of them, to find and to maintain a stable couple relation, well-established and happy continue to be occupying a preponderant role in his/her “ideal” of life (to short, half or long-term), while either his absence or failure is frequently detected as a negative or stressful condition that affects the life of their protagonists. The present work deals with a psychosocial approximation to the study of the sentimental relations in youngster’s couples that are not yet living together neither they have done it in the past. In this phase it is accustomed to give rise the germ of future-conflicts and the couple behaviour patterns become established to be perpetuated and to constitute the guideline or the posterior relation model for it. Thus the way to understand love, the couple relationship, the conflict and the management skill to solve it, will be analyzed.

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Isidro de Pedro, A. I., & Peñil Fernández, I. (2014). Roses and thorns in romantic relationships: love, expectations, and problems. International Journal of Developmental and Educational Psychology. Revista INFAD De Psicología., 3(1), 385–394. https://doi.org/10.17060/ijodaep.2014.n1.v3.516
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Vol. 3 No. 1 (2014): EDUCATIONAL DIFFICULTIES
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